Love my lovely lashes

So Had my mink lashes done today by the lovely Aimee, feeling a little under the weather and wanting a little bit of a boost, these definitely done the trick..!! Love them and would recommend to anyone and everyone..! She gives you Instant glamour, perfect pick me up..!

Personally, I can't stand wearing strip lashes as I always end up peeling them off half way through a night out,
But These lightweight lashes look and feel so natural ( I opted for the longest length)
They are extensions, so you do have to take care of them to get six weeks out of them (no picking allowed!) you can do absolutely everything with them on, except use any oil based products but you definitely don't need mascara, and if your an eyeliner addict like myself just switch to pencil..!

Here is a few pictures to show you my result (thanks so much Aimee!) and if you want to get in contact with her through Facebook her name is Lovely Lashes :-)

Love Debs
xXx

Soap&glory review

Okay so here's my first review blog :-)

I'll start by making a promise to all readers

I Deborah, Swear to you, that I will always give my god honest opinion on anything and everything I post...!!!

Another thing that I want to inform you of (I think it's very important as an honest beauty blogger!)
1) There is no such thing as a pore minimiser...!!

2) BB creams are just glorified tinted moisturisers..don't waste money on them..!

Okay so today I have 3 products from the Soap&glory cosmetics range (so in love with the packaging)

Firstly I started off with the trick and treatment (bright on) under eye concealer and with having adams family dark circles myself was excited to see if it did what it said on the tin....all I can say is brilliant, with a yellow undertone (neutralises purple tones) and a light reflecting shimmer, I was amazed at how my under eye circles disappeared by putting a tiny amount under the eye and working the concealer from inside out..It really works..!

Now next up was the blot translucent powder...for anyone who gets that mid day shine from their skin this is a must, powder is very light and leaves skin with a smooth matte texture, one tip with this powder less is more..!

And finally XL Sexy Motherpucker lip plumping gloss, all I can say is stings like crazy, not amazing dramatic results, but definitely made lips plump a bit :-)

Products well worth a try..!!

Love Debs
xXx
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Why did we bother burning Our bras

A few years ago in Ireland, it was the norm to meet a seemed to be dashing young man at the local disco, start courting (dating) and boom a year or so later married life and a child.....(not complaining, I was the product of such type of marriage)

It's Something that's a far cry from the modern online dating/meeting a fella whilst drunk in town and exchanging numbers thing us young one's have going on..!!

Where is all the romance gone...? The ladylike behaviour..? The Dominant male provider...??

Well it's dying out, everything is so fast paced these days, We want something, We want it now..!!
Women wanted equal rights...Well we didn't totally get them, lets be honest it's a mans world (I blame Irish mammies and their son syndrome)

Men are really like children...overgrown ones at that and if We have to put up with that, Then I think we should at least get something in return like a romantic gesture every once in a while..a few kind words, a nice text anything :-/

I personally think with programmes like Geordie shore ect, Us girls have to fight for Our good name.., those programmes give the notion that we are all drunken sluts or something..! We took three steps forward and ten steps back..!! One of us makes a mistake we all fall down..!

Why did we bother burning our bras...?

Ladies lets get a revolution going (part two) don't be one of 'those' kinda girls. Remember If you don't respect yourself don't expect anyone else to..! Confidence is king..you set your own standards don't let anyone bring you down.

Love Debs
xXx

Lets play a game of chance

Fear....

Something that sometimes stops us from doing things that We might enjoy or even make us happy..!

Why let it..??

Afraid of what people think or say, afraid of failure or how We might look stupid..the list is endless..!!

All great things come with great risk,
My advice..just go for it, at the end of the day from the gospel of Rihanna 'people going to talk weather your doing bad or good'

Don't get me wrong I've been hurt, and looked really stupid and of course failed with risks that I have taken..but who cares, would rather say I tried than wondered what could have been..!!

Even blogging scares me to be honest its like a diary, knowing people read the page and I am putting myself out there to be judged, but have to say even though there is naturally going to be some negative feedback, you have to take the good with the bad I didn't set out to be liked by everyone...(quite an impossible task to do!) but the only thing to do is go with it be myself and see where it goes :-) and everyone has been great, really, thanks..!!

Anyway back to where I was going with this (can be a bit away with the fairies at times!) weather it's a new job, a relationship, a move from home or any other exciting venture or change that could give you a chance of being happy...
Go for it...!! And if you don't succeed don't stress this little life is full of opportunities and chances..!!

Love
Debs xXx

The grass is always greener on the other side

Oh it's one of them days where I just want to lock myself away from the world, is it my hormones haha...nope, maybe I need to be signed into a mental institution...mad woman on the loose..!

We all have these days don't we..?
Down in the dumps for no apparent reason and worrying about everything and anything that 'could' happen and what way We 'Should' be....

Why..???

Like why can't we be constantly happy, everyone else seems to be...?
In fact everyone else but yourself has this amazing, happy, glam,carefree life..don't they..??

Emmmm No not really, Truth is We are all in the same boat, different life, different battles...

We all go through shitty times in life, but what We should realise is no matter what problem We have, big or small, there is ALWAYS someone out there who's willing to listen..We can't be perfectly happy and ridiculously amazing all the time you know :-)

I'm just writing this little passage as March is mental health awareness month, and With the amount of young people battling depression it's something We need to recognise..!!

For anyone out there who has a problem and might feel like they're on there own just remember your not, We all get down , nobody's perfect and never be afraid to talk to someone...people do care and a problem shared is a problem halved..!!!

Some food for thought....Is the grass really that much greener on the other side....?



Love Debs xXx

You ugly bitch..!

So.....

I'd be the first one to admit it, first thing I do when I look at My reflection is zoom in on any negative things I don't like about myself..I could get a million compliments but them few little negative words of criticism stick in my head...

Maybe I'm mad, but I think We all do self-doubt, especially in the mirror...
Probably every woman's worst enemy at times, a few minutes of the day taken out to point out all them imaginary flaws we have...

We're Always looking at pictures in magazines wishing away that We had 'those abs/ hair or cheekbones'......
Truth is that super skinny, oh so flawless tanned bitch is airbrushed....non-existent, So stop being so hard on yourself...!!

So what if your stomach sticks out, you have hips and There's a few marks on your skin...you are real...!!!

In my opinion Women today look better than ever, Especially us Irish girls, we have moved up the ranks, got a little bit better at styling Ourselves and seem as confident as ever.....

But in fact we are far from it...
Truth is you can have the biggest wardrobe in the world, have had top to toe transformation surgery and (I quote from that great TLC song) 'buy all the make-up that MAC can make' and still feel like shit...Your friends may say you look amazing but sure what good is that if you don't feel it...!!

Why....? Because it really, truly is what's on the inside that counts...now don't get me wrong I'm not saying burn Our bra's and ditch the lovely colourful collection of face paint We have, But I do think there is three easy enough steps that anyone who's reading this can take to FEEL beautiful...Me included..!!

1) Stop comparing yourself to others....

So what if that silly bitch around the corner has Nicer hair/car/clothes than you, forget about it concentrate on YOU...We come in all different packaging, there is 101 things that are oh so faboulous about you...inside and out, so work it...!!

2) Bitch less...

We all bitch, but within reason, let things go...Too much bitching is just jealousy and only Ugly people are jealous...yes they might come in lovely packaging but inside that is a green eyed ugly bitch who puts others down to momentarily pick themselves up...don't be that girl you'll never be happy...!!


3) Be yourself....

In order to love yourself you have to be yourself...!!! So accept you for you, never try be someone your not...Accept your flaws...all these little things make you..You are really one of a kind so start showing it..!!!


Love Debs
xXx

Why he didn't call you back..!!

Myself and a few friends were chatting the other night and the topic turned to men... Those funny weird creatures, that no matter what age, We will never understand their twisted behaviour..!!

We spoke about that baffling thing that The little shits loooove to do...You go out, meet (a who you thought was nice) fella..give him your number possibly go out on a date and wait for it....He doesn't text or call you back hmmmmm...!!!

Well We came to the conclusion that either

1) He dropped dead or is really 'busy'

2) Has another woman on the go and just isn't really that into you..!!

Or

3) My favourite conclusion....he's gay..!!!!

If it was the other way around a Woman would just say..listen I'm not into you or make up a little white lie that your 'seeing' someone else..weasels..!!!

Moral of the story ladies enjoy your weekend and don't give the fella that didn't text you a second thought..!!
Men have no backbone let them do the chasing and if he doesn't in the wise words of my lovely friend Clara 'He's clearly just not that into you'

Love Debs xXx