You ugly bitch..!

So.....

I'd be the first one to admit it, first thing I do when I look at My reflection is zoom in on any negative things I don't like about myself..I could get a million compliments but them few little negative words of criticism stick in my head...

Maybe I'm mad, but I think We all do self-doubt, especially in the mirror...
Probably every woman's worst enemy at times, a few minutes of the day taken out to point out all them imaginary flaws we have...

We're Always looking at pictures in magazines wishing away that We had 'those abs/ hair or cheekbones'......
Truth is that super skinny, oh so flawless tanned bitch is airbrushed....non-existent, So stop being so hard on yourself...!!

So what if your stomach sticks out, you have hips and There's a few marks on your skin...you are real...!!!

In my opinion Women today look better than ever, Especially us Irish girls, we have moved up the ranks, got a little bit better at styling Ourselves and seem as confident as ever.....

But in fact we are far from it...
Truth is you can have the biggest wardrobe in the world, have had top to toe transformation surgery and (I quote from that great TLC song) 'buy all the make-up that MAC can make' and still feel like shit...Your friends may say you look amazing but sure what good is that if you don't feel it...!!

Why....? Because it really, truly is what's on the inside that counts...now don't get me wrong I'm not saying burn Our bra's and ditch the lovely colourful collection of face paint We have, But I do think there is three easy enough steps that anyone who's reading this can take to FEEL beautiful...Me included..!!

1) Stop comparing yourself to others....

So what if that silly bitch around the corner has Nicer hair/car/clothes than you, forget about it concentrate on YOU...We come in all different packaging, there is 101 things that are oh so faboulous about you...inside and out, so work it...!!

2) Bitch less...

We all bitch, but within reason, let things go...Too much bitching is just jealousy and only Ugly people are jealous...yes they might come in lovely packaging but inside that is a green eyed ugly bitch who puts others down to momentarily pick themselves up...don't be that girl you'll never be happy...!!


3) Be yourself....

In order to love yourself you have to be yourself...!!! So accept you for you, never try be someone your not...Accept your flaws...all these little things make you..You are really one of a kind so start showing it..!!!


Love Debs
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