Does this mean I've to be completely selfish...?
Why does it seem the people who care the most are usually the ones left behind..?
Society is trying to turn me into a bitch...
You put yourself out there you get rejected, Put to the bottom of the pile and hurt
People only want to squeeze you like a lemon, Drain.every.last.drop
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All that's a bit dark maybe...?
Some truth in it though, Can you really count on people to be there for you..?
Well firstly, If You start to question yourself/ your happiness, your life and everyone in it, Basically You are on a one way track to depression..!!
The older I get the smaller My circles become, Why..?
Your life's basically like a garden,
You are the lovely green grass, And in that grass grows beautiful blossoming flowers that will make your garden look pretty, But on the other hand you have weeds that will poison your garden until removed..
Moral of my little story is keep the flowers that add a splash of colour to your garden, If you put all your energy into that you will soon see your life flourish the way it should...!
All this 'VIP' wannabe, life is faaaaboulous darrrrling crap perceives an image of happiness right..?
Wrong...People crave to belong, and if that means standing in the VIP area of a club or in the latest 'To be seen at' spot spending money you don't have and wearing a smile as false as the girls implants next to you so be it...
What I'm getting at here is Value the people who are there not just when the party's in full swing, But the ones who are with you for your darkest days (We all have them!) and you soon learn they are few and far between so do keep them close..!
It's your life, your choices and We all make bad ones but it's not how you fall down it's how you get back up
Acceptance being a primary word here..
Accept what happens to you
Accept who you are
And Accept life not only changes, But it goes on
A divorce, a loss, a break up, a failure..One of them 'life turned upside down moments' (Am I the only one who start humming The Fresh Prince Of Bel Air theme song?)
Instead of saying 'Why me?????'
Go do something with yourself make a change, Accomplish something (big or small) Make your mark on this World We live in but more importantly look after YOU
Your the only one living your life, You control what happens (To a certain extent anyway)
You can let people hurt you or you can let yourself be happy
YOU CONTROL YOUR HAPPINESS, NOBODY ELSE
It's a state of mind and your the only one that can make it happen..!
Love Debs xXx
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Again Thank You for reading my ramblings x
And thank you to all the flowers in my life, Love you all so much x
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