Happily ever after....?

Love Songs...... What is it about them..? A few deep words that hit the heart, A collection of musical instruments that let the mind wander into a whirlwind of either....

1) The one you have loved 

2) The one you have lost 

or even the one you're yet to find

Us Women are absolute suckers for a good love song (Insert your own personal favorite here)

Why...?

We secretly all want the 'one', Deep down We are hopeless romantics, As much as it kills me to admit with My own Boyfriends nickname for me being 'ice queen', The story of The Prince and Princesses 'happily ever after' is one that We kiiiiinda all secretly long for, But then again that's a fairy tale isn't it and We all know fairy tales don't work in real life...

Put your hands up who's been hurt in a relationship...? Exactly, The lot of us whether it's through a partners vice, lack of interest in You or the general faults that some carry, just something that fizzles out or maybe You have done something to a partner You regret, The direction I'm going here is that we have all experienced some form or hurt of the heart right...?

Does that mean are dreams are crushed of the happily ever after...?

No Princess, Keep that crown firmly on your head there..!! We all want the 'prince' in our life but let's be honest have you seen the Men out there...?

Maybe there isn't such thing as a happily ever after, that movie whisk you off your feet kinda love, 

But there is all them little things in a Woman's life, An exchange of smiles with that gorgeous stranger in the shops, A text that has you grinning like your high , making up after an argument, the date that goes really well, a thoughtful gesture or maybe just a simple hug or kiss, that little tingling feeling you get, or the fun in kissing the frogs whilst getting back into the dating game, I could go on but I'd only lose my ice queen rep..!

Girls what I'm saying is maybe there isn't a happily ever after for us out there but what about the happy in the now..! The same way no person is perfect, either is any relationship but who says it has to be perfect, Perfect is boring anyway, Just make sure the half frog- half prince partner you have or the one around the corner treats You right...You are a princess after all..!

Love Debs xXx

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