Why are We so judgemental of others...?
As humans no matter what way you want to sugar coat it,
We all judge a book by its cover
Peoples appearance, Brands they wear (don't lie) Where they are from, What they do for a living and of course their accent (Take Note: Saying Riiiiish instead of right does not bump you up to the top of the class pyramid, you sound like a wannabe go get elocution lessons please!)
That's why (personally I think) everyone tries so hard nowadays, To almost out-do one another, show off on the likes of facebook etc. how AMAZING their lives are, how much they love their PERFECT other half and naming what designer brands they have as if there going out of fashion.
I always get suspicious of people like this...are they actually that un-happy with their lives that they have to fake everything...? Really....?
Champagne lifestyles on lemonade money...... TOWIE springs to mind! We all know it's not real..!
Since when did fake come into fashion and being yourself become such a turn off....
Being somebody your not requires too much effort thats why I'm sooooooo happy to be out of my teens (even though some never leave them) just be comfortable in my own skin...
A random thought popped into my head the other day while I was driving,
Why can't life be like a road and people like cars...?
On the road, We all just drive together all cars of all different colours, shapes and sizes
It doesn't matter what colour they are, What they work like or in fact what journey they're on, They go at their own pace and arrive at their own different destinations after a peaceful journey.
We are all on the same journey, different destinations and stages, So why not work together, Be happy for people, encourage one another and concentrate on your own journey
So what I'm trying to get at is... Don't bother being in competition with anyone else because.. You'll lose
We were all born different, a different mix, each to their own
What a waste of a life it is to try make yourself something that your not
Embrace yourself, You are truly one of a kind,
I learnt at a young age to fuck what everyone else thinks of you, there is always going to be people who don't like you for no reason, someone who spreads a few rumours and a few friends along the way who backstab,
Excuse the french, But i'm going to be blunt here.. fuck them, if your living your life happily and doing no wrong by others, What's the problem..?
A tiger doesn't lose sleep over the opinion of a sheep
So darling let me tell you, Keep doing what your doing be happy and let the useless sheep stay together bitching in their flock, While you do what tigers do best and let out a big Rawr (Haha I'm actually cringing)
If you can't afford champagne, Be yourself, Go get a glass of your well earned lemonade and drink it with a smile on your face, Making the most of what YOU have and make decisions for you, that make YOU happy
Your going to meet some not so nice people on your journey, Remember misery loves company, It's your choice if you want to feed into them or do your own thing ...
Whats the point in being alive if your not living the way you want...?
It's your party so you decide what guests you invite....
Love Debs xXx
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