Your innocently walking down the street/ In a club/pub and you give a nice friendly smile to the fellow Woman your passing by and get absolute evil daggers in return..!! Why why why...???
Did you do something wrong..?
Not at all, it's just something I can't get my head around and anytime it does happen I get that 'kick in the chest' feeling, The older i'm getting the more i'm realising it's not You it's them, BUT It costs nothing to be nice and some Women will never grasp it..!!
I'll get you to imagine this for me...
There is three men in a pub, One goes to the Toliet, the other two start gossiping about him and while he's in the Toliet he smiles at a complete stranger and gets the 'evil eyes' in return...
Does this ever happen with Men ever emmmm NO..!!
I wonder sometimes why wasn't I born a Man, Why are Women such bitches..!!
Now don't get me wrong all sexes love an occasional let off some steam bitch (For Sanities sake!!) but seriously the drama of some Women out there, too busy wanting what others have then looking around and appreciating what their own life has to offer..!!
A message to anyone guilty of it:
Life is there for the taking, Your never going to get what 'your 'wan' around the corner has by talking about her, Get off your arse and work for it instead..!
Anyway now that's off my chest I'll get back to where I was going with this....
I'm quite a spiritual person and am a true believer in energies and karma, there is an old saying (One of my favourites) and I hope by sharing this someone out there will take it in...
'Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die'
Now you can apply that to almost any negative thing that's ever happened in your life, Let things go, be happy and smile...!!!
We all have Our insecurities and not smiling back at someone or being nice isn't going to make us feel any better now is it...?
Did you ever wonder why men seem so much more carefree (apart from the fact they don't really have as much responsibilities as us Women) They care less, they don't care if there neighbour is driving a better car or that they haven't got a better body than the dude in the office, They kinda just get on with it don't they...!!
As much as I hate to admit it, We are all judgemental little creatures and being human We naturally do judge a book by it's cover BUT next time you think and listen a little before you judge, I've built great relationships with People over time that I've given a chance to, So what I'm getting at is next time someone's giving you the evil eye, Give them a smile and try not create an opinion on the Woman beside you from your feelings, So what if you don't like the look of her or have heard other people's negative opinions..Give everyone a chance :-)
We are all going through the same struggle in life, You may not see it but we are and at the end of it all it costs nothing to be nice, If anything you gain from
It..!!
Thanks for reading ❤
Love Debs xXx
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