Stage 5 clinger...!!!!!

So, Your out the Weekend and meet this lovely Guy,
You start texting back and forth, A few dates pass, You kinda like him but your not head over heels.

He won't back off, Your bombarded with texts, phone calls the lot

What do you do...?

Why can't people take the hint, You're just not that into them...!! God I sound like a right bitch, But We've all had (at least) one cling-on in the dating game..!!!

How do you get rid..? Ignore them..?

No, From My experience honesty really is the best policy (They cling harder otherwise)

Everyone goes out with someone their not that into at some stage, You have to be brutely honest and straight it's the only way they un-cling (or the old 'I'm seeing someone else and it's getting serious trick works a treat!) 

Clingers have this way of making you feel almost guilty You're not into them as much as they'd like you to be, it's a terrible feeling...!! 

Here's Some warning signs of a stage 5 clinger....

1) You've been on one date and they are all OVER you and start talking about future 'plans' 

2) The more you ignore them the more they see this as a 'chase' 

3) They awkwardly corner you/your friends or in fact anyone who you've ever spoke to at social events.

4) You hear through the grapevine that after a two weeks of texting, Both of you are in a 'serious' relationship

5) Cyber-stalking, accidentally 'liking' pictures on Facebook, stalking all close friends, and exes profiles

6) They text You over and over, You don't respond and yet you still get a 'Sorry for bothering You' text, Followed by a 'who's this' or 'Sorry, wrong number' hours later..! 

7)  After Months of endless stalking, You think your in the clear, Noooo you bump into them and within hours you get a 'Sorry I couldn't stick around had to rush' or 'It was great seeing You' text (Time for a number change!) 

If a lot of these sound familiar and you think YOU could be a 'Clinger' don't fret, Take a look at this blog post I wrote a few Months back http://lovebydebs.blogspot.ie/2013/03/why-he-didn-call-you-back.html


Just a word of reassurance to anyone experiencing the stress of a clinger.... They all give up sooner or later, You will experience being labelled a 'bitch' ect. ect. But Hey, You can't help who You do and don't fall for..!!!