Sunday, 29 December 2013

No, A Man won't love a bitch

What modern day singer springs to mind when you hear the words 'independent woman'......?

Well for majority of us it would be Beyonce, Now as Beyonce was singing 'single ladies' she was clearly not a single lady but all loved up with Jay-Z,

Where does this leave the single ladies huh...?

In the corner of a nightclub trying to do their best 'sexy dance' to attract some 'fine males' (we all know the dance I'm talking about, every nightclub has at least one usually classy lady 'dropping low')

No ladies resist the temptation.....please, desperation is not a sexy scent to be wearing..! 

The question is, Do Men really love bitches...? 

Em no,  Where did this idea even spring from..? Nobody loves a bitch

Personally Women need to wake up and realise Men are total different creatures to us sophisticated females, Like a dog they need to be trained (sorry guys!) and like a true trainer you set the boundaries, Be a pushover that believes every word and you will be walked over and lied to,

Listen, I'll just say it as it is if you need another person to make you happy, as in you're one of those 'I need a boyfriend' kind of ladies you probably won't ever find a relationship you are truly happy in, How do you expect a relationship to last if you can't hold your own huh..?? A man can and will walk out when he feels like it, Women don't generally tend to do that, So Be happy alone first, Stop desperately looking for something that's not there and forcing things with men that don't really have an interest because honey You will be the one left in tears not him..!

You know them Women on a night out that a man walks over to and she does be ALL over him or even on a first date..? Yep, won't get you anywhere, and not being like that isn't being a bitch it's having some common sense and self respect, You are the one that has to be wooed not them...!

Be a real independent woman, If you don't need a man for anything and can look after yourself well then you have the power, As silly as it sounds it doesn't matter if your on a first date or your out celebrating your 50th Wedding anniversary there's a bit of a game aspect to a relationship and the ball should always be in a Woman's court, As the song goes this is in fact a Man's world (We all know that) but it wouldn't be anything without a Woman..!! So the next time that Guy from last night doesn't call you back remember that..!

A man won't love a bitch yet he will respect an independent woman who doesn't need a man for her to know her own self-worth (Yes You are amazing, without a man) Find someone who treats You right and if not as Queen Bey says 'To the left, to the left'...!!!



Love Debs 
xXx 












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